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Creative Masturbation Tips

Writer's picture: Holly WoodHolly Wood

Masturbation is a natural and healthy way to explore your own body and experience pleasure. However, sometimes it can become routine or predictable. If you're looking to spice up your solo play, here are some exciting tips, games, activities, and naughty ideas that go beyond the run-of-the-mill masturbation techniques. Let's dive into a world of self-discovery and pleasure!




1. Sensual Exploration:

Instead of focusing solely on genital stimulation, try exploring other sensitive areas of your body. Experiment with caressing your neck, inner thighs, nipples, back of the knees, or even your feet. This expanded sensory experience can heighten pleasure and lead to surprising sensations.


2. Sensory Play:

Engage all your senses by incorporating sensory play into your masturbation routine. Experiment with temperature play by using ice cubes or heating up some of your favorite lube, lotion, or massage oil to explore your body. Try blindfolding yourself to heighten anticipation or incorporate scented candles or essential oils to create a sensual ambiance.


3. Sex Toys:

Incorporating sex toys can take your solo play to a whole new level. From vibrators and dildos to butt plugs and anal beads, the market offers a wide range of toys designed for various preferences. Explore different textures, sizes, and intensities to find what works best for you.


4. Erotic Literature or Audio:

Expand your imagination and enhance arousal by indulging in erotic literature or audio content. There are countless books, short stories, and podcasts available that can transport you to tantalizing scenarios. Let your mind create vivid visuals as you stimulate yourself.


5. Role-Playing and Fantasies:

The biggest sexual organ you have is your brain. Embrace your fantasies and try incorporating role-playing into your solo sessions. Dress up in different outfits, use props, or create scenarios in your mind that fulfill your deepest desires. Imagining yourself in different roles can add excitement and a sense of adventure. Don’t be afraid to dive into your deepest fantasies.


6. Edging and Orgasm Control:

Edging involves bringing yourself close to the edge of orgasm and then backing off. This technique can intensify your eventual climax and prolong the pleasure. Explore different ways to control your orgasm, such as varying speeds, pressure, or incorporating breathwork techniques.


7. Mutual Masturbation:

If you're in a consensual and trusting relationship, consider exploring mutual masturbation with your partner. Watch each other pleasure yourselves, and observe how their techniques and reactions can inspire your own pleasure. It can be an intimate and exciting experience that strengthens your connection.


8. Video and Audio Platforms:

If you're open to it, there are online platforms that allow you to connect with others who are also exploring their pleasure. Engage in virtual experiences, exchange fantasies, or watch others while you explore yourself. Ensure you are comfortable with the platform's rules and guidelines before engaging.


Conclusion

Remember, masturbation is about self-discovery, pleasure, and exploring your desires. These tips and ideas aim to expand your horizons and encourage you to step out of your comfort zone. However, always prioritize consent, safety, and respect for your own boundaries and the boundaries of others. Enjoy the journey of self-exploration and embrace the possibilities that lie beyond the typical masturbation techniques.






About the author

Holly Wood is a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, and Certified Sexologist with the American Board of Sexology (ABS). This unique combination of credentials enables her to focus on clients’ sex lives as well as their overall mental health and trauma recovery.


Holly works with individuals and couples who have been looking forward to meeting their own sexual desires both individually and in relationships. She works from a trauma-informed, sex-positive, and holistic approach to help clients to get past their past and develop the necessary skills to achieve lifelong change and improve their quality of life.


When she is not counseling clients, she is holding seminars and workshops, conducting sex research or, or utilizing social media to disseminate accurate, up-to-date information to a wide range of audiences hoping to improve their sexual wellness. Holly's mission is to spread education, empowerment, and self-love. She is committed to helping people heal themselves and live a life full of pleasure and connection.


Visit www.thehollywoodsexologist.com to learn more and request a consultation.

 
 
 

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